EFT instructions
Step 1
What do I feel in this conflict?
Step 2
Rate the intensity of the feeling on the subjective rating scale. Focus on what you feel inside, and try to assess how much this feeling is straining you. 10 is the greatest possible strain, 0 means that you don’t feel any strain at all.
Write down the value for yourself.
Step 3
Based on these findings, write down a phrase in the next step. We will now explain how: Take the feeling that you wrote down in Step 1, and formulate a phrase with the following opening words and these closing words:
Even though I have this
, I deeply and completely accept myself.
The tapping sentence can be, for instance:
Although I am afraid of verbal accusations,
I deeply and completely accept myself.
Now read this sentence aloud. Does it sound right to you? Do you want to change it, e.g. shorten or adjust it? You can sharpen it to your liking any time.
Step 4
Sit up straight, with both feet on the ground.
Step 5
Now tap a circle clockwise around your thymus gland (located in your thorax directly behind the sternum, above the pericardium, it reaches from the base of the collarbones to the fourth pair of ribs) using your forefinger and middle finger.
While doing so, speak the phrase you formulated in Step 3.
Step 6
Now dive into that feeling described in Step 1. Give this feeling enough space. Let yourself sink in, without judging. Fully concentrate on your feeling.
Start tapping while repeating your “tapping sentence” aloud.
Tap and speak: Although I am ...
Step 7
If necessary, you can repeat the procedure. Do so whilst breathing deeply and slowly.
Now specifically visualise the conflict situation once again, and allow the associated feelings to arise in you. Now, in this very moment, when no danger is present. To lighten this feeling, we will recommend an exercise to you. No matter how odd the approach may seem to you, trust that it will help you if you allow it.
Instructions
Step 1
What do I feel in this conflict?
Step 2
Rate the intensity of the feeling on the subjective rating scale. Focus on what you feel inside, and try to assess how much this feeling is straining you. 10 is the greatest possible strain, 0 means that you don’t feel any strain at all.
Write down the value for yourself.
Step 3
Based on these findings, write down a phrase in the next step. We will now explain how: Take the feeling that you wrote down in Step 1 and formulate a phrase with the following opening words and these closing words:
Even though I have this ...
, I deeply and completely accept myself.
The tapping sentence can be, for instance:
Although I am afraid of verbal accusations,
I deeply and completely accept myself.
Now read this sentence aloud. Does it sound right to you? Do you want to change it, e.g. shorten or adjust it? You can sharpen it to your liking any time.
Step 5
Now tap a circle clockwise around your thymus gland (located in your thorax directly behind the sternum, above the pericardium, it reaches from the base of the collarbones to the fourth pair of ribs) using your forefinger and middle finger.
While doing so, speak the phrase you formulated in Step 3.
Step 6
Now dive into that feeling described in Step 1. Give this feeling enough space. Let yourself sink in, without judging. Fully concentrate on your feeling.
Start tapping while repeating your “tapping sentence” aloud.
Tap and speak: Although I am ‘
Step 7
After a while, i.e. when you feel that the exercise has had an impact, assess the intensity of your feeling using the rating scale from Step 2.
If you are feeling better, and you find yourself at the lower end of the scale, you can stop the exercise.
If necessary, you can repeat the procedure.
Do so whilst breathing deeply and slowly.